"DREAM BIG"

I don’t know about you, but I really like a little encouragement every now and then. It doesn’t hurt to get a pat-on-the-back, a hug, or a thank you, you did a great job. When we don’t get these things it doesn’t necessarily mean we haven’t done well or that we are bad persons.

As I write to you, I realize you probably don’t know me. That’s okay. I still care very much or I wouldn’t spend time writing. Perhaps, if you weren’t looking for some answers you wouldn’t be reading this. It’s really a two-way deal.

As long as I can do it, I will keep writing. I have been so busy completing another university degree and I have been a bit slack in my writing. I am sorry for that but there are many of us that wear numerous hats in a world that is hurting and crying out in need.

Just last evening I talked with a fellow who was open with me, and I might add, in front of others who I hope use what they heard properly. He shared his psych evals with me and then spoke of his suicidal ideation over the past few months. He does not have that problem right now so we must move in and help him build his hope. Don’t you agree? What would you tell him? How would you encourage him?

I really like Ryan Shupe & the Rubberband. Their little song Dream Big really hits the spot. When you cry be sure to dry your eyes, cause better days are sure to come. That is almost always the case. Don’t tell me that many of your clouds haven’t had silver linings. Sometimes we can all get into the absolutely everything is awful mood, but we can always get out of it too. Let me know what you have done to get out of those moods?

When you laugh be sure to laugh out loud, cause it will carry all your cares away. And when you see, see the beauty all around and in yourself, and it will help you feel okay. There is not a single person who does not house some terrific beauty within. That’s right! We need to see that more within ourselves and we need to laugh more. That’s why we need to carefully choose who we want to be around. Find people to share your laughter and beauty.

The next part is critical to living: And when you walk, walk with pride, and don’t show the hurt inside, because the pain will soon be gone. That is so true. The words would never indicate ending the pain by ending your life. These are alive words and that’s what we most need to hear.

Our lives are for living. If you feel you just can’t make it, seek professional help. Visit a support group. Get involved where there are people who care because there are many people who care, whether you might believe it or not. Some final words: And when you pray, pray for strength to help to carry on when the troubles come your way. You could write to me--I would respond.